Joanna Santos writes about crossdreaming over at her blog:
"So imagine that you are a little boy who identifies as a girl but then along comes puberty and short circuits everything by having the sex you identify with also be the sex you are attracted to. For in essence this is what happens to all heterosexual gender dysphorics.
So I ask myself: can I imagine a scenario where this inherent contradiction would not produce sexual confusion? The answer is that I cannot."
Crossdream Life discussion.