Last year Jeana Jorgensen published a good piece on autogynephilia over at Your Tango.
Somewhat belatedly this has led to an interesting discussion on autogynephilia over at Crossdream Life.
One of the members, April, dismisses the whole theory with one paragraph:
"Each of us is unique. I know of nobody else with an experience that exactly matches my own. Our only commonality is some form of grender dysphoria. That is why there are no hard rules here, no boxes, or cookbook solutions. This can't be reduced to an all encompassing theory or model that include everybody. It is about each of us finding our comfort zone in our individual way."